SCAM MARRIAGES

Any marriage contracted without sincerity of purpose for lifelong companionship and benevolent service to the spouse of one’s choosing is fraud. 

Without honest love, mutual support and true friendship, the marital union may easily be reduced to a roguish fraternal contraption forged by the grimy hands of ulterior or selfish motive, manipulation and make-believe upon the faulty foundation of falsehood and deception. 

To scam is to defraud, deceive or cheat. 

When a person cheats to get married, by pretending before marriage, they have built their marriage upon a foundation of cheating, lies and deceit. 

Little wonder there is lack of honesty, lots of lies and a cycle of cheating perpetuated in the span of such unhealthily contracted marriages. 

Get real. Be honest, truthful and sincere.

If you are already grappling at the center of the mix, get help to fix the problem. 

It's very important to make the time necessary to do due diligence in building proper friendship and in objectively assessing emotional stability and interpersonal compatibility prior to getting married. 

Prevention is better than medication.

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DEFINITIONS:

What is a scam? 

A scam is a fraudulent scheme performed by a dishonest individual, group, or company in an attempt to obtain money or something else of value.

What is fraud? 

Fraud is a false representation of a matter of fact—whether by words or by conduct, by false or misleading allegations, or by concealment of what should have been disclosed—that deceives and is intended to deceive another so that the individual will act upon it to his or her disadvantage or hurt. Fraud is commonly understood as dishonesty calculated for advantage. Fraud is an act or course of deception, an intentional concealment, omission, or perversion of truth. A person who is dishonest may be called a fraud.