OPEN LETTER TO EX AND WARNING TO SINGLES


WARNING TO SINGLES ASPIRING TO MARRIGE

AND OPEN LETTER TO AN UNSCRUPULOUS EX


To whom it may concern.

Don’t marry a man whose leadership, integrity, vision, commitment to and love for you you don’t trust and afterwards rebel against his authority. 

Don’t marry a woman who doesn’t meet your standards or requirements, who is not committed to you, who pretends a lot, is deceitful, inauthentic, lacks healthy self-image and is led by or under the control of third parties or public expectation.

Marriage is for adults. 

Don’t let your parents or peers choose your spouse for you when you are not really into that person or if your values don’t align.

Don’t be desperate to get married.

Take responsibility for your choice. 

Don’t also pretend before marriage so that your target marital candidate chooses you. 

If you have already defaulted in these areas and married wrongly, hold yourself accountable and don’t put the blame on one person.

Do not deploy sinister schemes to make the person appear to be a bad person so as to justify your leaving them. 

That is a most abominable and lowlife thing to do.

Do the right thing to right your wrongs.

If you can’t stay, dissolve it legally and honorably.

Walk away peacefully and respectfully without being a covert criminal or destroying demon.

Be an authentic person.

It’s either you’re married or you’re not.

Do these things and honor God for once.

Don’t let God punish you in eternal places.

Or you don’t know He is a Just Judge that can’t be confused or manipulated like human beings can?

Do you really believe in God?

What are you doing to yourself?

PS: People generally know what they did from the beginning but are usually deeply dishonest about it to save face or project a false image of perfection.

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