SELF-RESPECT

 

Clear Signs You Have Self-Respect:

You value and protect your time and energy.

You focus on worthy goals and productivity.

You ignore the BS and focus on real issues.

You don’t engage in negative, unnecessary or unproductive arguments and altercations.

You say what you mean and mean what you say.

Your word is your bond. You deliver what you promise.

You admit and work on your blindspots or shortfalls.

You take the initiative to do what needs to be done and contribute towards public good.

You prioritize self-development, self-investment and self-care. 

You avoid begging for attention or validation.

Your happiness is not based on external factors.

You don’t chase anyone who is disinterested in you.

You address disrespect directly, promptly and assertively.

You speak less and ensure your words carry weight and meaning.

You think carefully before you speak—your words define and project your value.

You avoid engaging in gossip or unnecessary negativity.

You leave any relationship where you’re not respected or valued.

You always present yourself well; dress neatly and responsibly.

You spend on yourself—it teaches others to respect your worth.

You give to people but you don’t overindulge in generosity unnecessarily or to opportunists who take undue advantage and who do not add any value or reciprocate the generosity.

You give more than you take. You’re not a greedy or unreasonable grabber. You find what and how to give back or pay kindness forward.

You don’t act in unhealthy competitiveness nor to impress or oppress others.

You limit personal visits and access from those who don’t value your presence or accessibility.

You’re sometimes unavailable; this communicates value and it gives you time for yourself.

You don’t go where you’re not invited, and if you are invited, you don’t overstay your welcome.

You treat people with respect and also as they deserve to be treated.

You let people invest in you and return the effort or investment you put in them, if they care to do so.

You appreciate people’s time and efforts.

You accept compliments with grace and gratitude.

You say no to unseemly demands or requests.

You don’t let people abuse or unduly exceed your restraining budgets and boundaries.

You respect other people’s boundaries.

You honor other people’s lifepaths or choices.

You don’t violate other people’s rights.

You embrace your unique identity and difference.

You accept constructive criticism as feedback.

You hold yourself accountable for your actions.

You take responsibility for your growth.

You take responsibility for those in your care.

You objectively and consistently evaluate yourself.

You constantly seek to right your wrongs.

You strive for excellence in all you that do.

You always seek to do the right thing.

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