DEAR DAUGHTER



Dear Daughter,

A man can sleep with you just to hǔmiliate or pǔnish you. 

Or just to satiate and satisfy his momentary urges.

Not necessarily because loves or cares about you.

A man who loves you will respect you and protect you, not handle you carelessly or inappropriately.

He can play and have healthy fun with you but not merçilessly treat you like dispøsable gǎrbage. 

He will not play with you to take undue advantage of your time, feelings, care, efforts, resources, etc.

But you need to respect yourself and stop giving yourself to any man who doesn’t value you.

And just because a man says he wants you doesn’t mean he values you; he may just want se’x.

So, value your own self and stop dressing, talking, behaving and presenting yourself as a trøllop.

Most men do not value women of easy virtue.

Crafty men may talk all sweet and fancy to them.

Yet they will only use them as slǔts and dǔmp them.

The goodhearted men will even treat them well.

The generous and capable may compensate well.

But they will never marry such a woman.

They won’t commit to them in marriage—no!

They’ll rather stay single than marry her type.

So daughter, listen:

You are not a prøstitute who allows all sorts of men to sleep with her for money (money is necessary but when a man pays you for se’x, he sees you as a høe who is about the money not any meaningful thing, and other men can also pay you for se’x).

Neither are you a dǎmaged and dyzfunctional girl who derives immense erøtic pleasure and fantasy when men røugh handle her and carry out BD$M, sadømasǒchism and other such fětishes on her. 

Well, except you have become these things.

However, that will be a different path to go on.

That’s a different mindset and approach to life.

If a man just wants sě’xual relief, he may even visit a prøstitute or call for the services of a runz girl.

But you daughter, if a man wants to sleep with you, it should be a man who you are married to.

A man who has committed to you and who you have committed to, not a random randy fellow.

Se’x may not mean so much to a man if he is not married to you but means a lot when he is married to you as the lack of it then can make him chěat on you—but just for physical or psychological relief.

Be sure a man genuinely loves and cares about you before you commit or give yourself to him.

Handle yourself with dignity.

Add value to your mentality.

Be an asset not a liability.

This is the real sability.

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