MEN, RESPECT YOURSELF

Men, listen up!

Be careful not to make suggestive remarks and actions towards your female staff or colleagues.

You lose respect whether she accepts or refuses.

She will start feeling on top of the world or she will suddenly start giving you some silly attitude.

She will even do or say something inappropriate or unseemly just to diss and rebuff your official orders or perhaps personal requests—something that she could never have tried doing or saying before.

Infact she will do it in front of people such as other colleagues just to indirectly tell them that: “Oga dey chase me or dey knack me, so I fit play with am.”

She won’t understand that you were (or are) only trying to relief pressure or satiate your urge/lust.

She may also start neglecting her own duties with the display of grossly intentional oversight but will pretend that it wasn’t intended or feign tiredness.

That’s why when some men have segx with women or girls who are far lower than them in social class or status, they do it roughly with anger, annoyance, intimidation, dominance and even hurt them so as to instill fear into them and make them understand that they don’t take rubbish attitude from women (but really it’s just certain kind of women who don’t respect themselves and tend to disrespect men).

This they do so that tomorrow these low-mentality  girls won’t start rubbing shoulders with them or disrespecting them, knowing fully well that they themselves don’t deserve to be with such men.

So it’s better to totally avoid all such nonsense.

Very few people are mature and trustworthy.

If there is no clear agreement or understanding between the parties involved, people may violate people’s rights in some way or betray themselves.

So as a man in a position of authority with a lot of female staffers or workers, especially young and attractive, you need to exercise self-control to avoid disrespect and insult from any of them.

It would also keep you from having resentment and implementing any form of retaliation or revenge.

All these are unwholesome and detrimental to all.

Few things can sully or tarnish the reputation of a man who is held in high regard than to be messing around with women of low worth or value.

That’s why some men are actually very ashamed or uncomfortable to go out or being seen with certain girls that they have slept with.

That’s why some low-value women are quick to tell people the high-value men who have slept with them but will be quiet about the lowlifes, criminals and disreputable men or boys you piped her silly.

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“There are three things that make the earth tremble—no, four it cannot endure: a slave who becomes a king, an overbearing fool who prospers, a bitter woman who finally gets a husband, a servant girl who supplants her mistress.” (Book of Proverb)