YOUR FAMILY



Marry who you love and respect!

And if there are issues to resolve,

Then discuss them as mature people.

Don’t easily walk away from spouse.

That means you are not committed.

Don’t let people help you end your home.

They don’t have your best interests in mind.

Don’t let your emotions jettison your union.

Be wise, mature, prayerful and guided.

Seek true knowledge and understanding.

Treasure your spouse and protect them.

Settle misunderstandings with each other.

Discuss expectations and limitations.

Open up about feelings and feedback.

Respect yourselves and make adjustments.

Apologize and give yourselves assurance.

Forgive yourselves and forge ahead firmly.

Build trust and confidence in each other.

Build only on and with what is genuine.

Know the personality that you married.

Know who you are committing yourself to.

Understand the place of a husband.

Appreciate the value of a wife too.

Work really well on your marriage.

It requires your best efforts.

See your efforts in your career.

That is very important to you.

Put effort into marriage building too.

Give both areas the needed attention.

Without one, the other will struggle.

Don’t let your family or career fail.

If they did, then learn and rebuild.

Nurture professional relationships.

Nurture family relationships more.

Be intentional. Be consistent.

Be committed. Be creative.

It’s your vital support system.

Family is built not bought.

Abientot!

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