POWER OF MARRIAGE

 


When two people love each other, they may go through challenges and tough times but they will walk through all of it together, hand in hand.

They will intrinsically provide each other with mutual encouragement and morale support.

That’s the power and beauty of marriage.

Make sure that who you’re with is there because they love you and not because of money or sex.

If the man only wants sex from you and doesn’t care about you, then he’s not your man.

If the woman only wants money from you and doesn’t care about you, she isn’t your wife.

Walk away immediately you discover this.

Don’t build your future on a false foundation.

Don’t make the humongous mistake of building your marriage on faulty footing.

When both partners truly value each other and their hearts are aligned to each other, they find immense comfort and strength in each other’s presence.

They find greater value and joy in the quality of the companionship than in the money, wealth, fame or affluence that may come or may not come. 

They live happily together in their peace, power, productivity, and prosperity (however this comes).

They are truly united as one and experience the true meaning of companionship, which sets the stage for them to strive gallantly for their goals.

This indeed helps them win big in life as they are coming from a place of true unconditional love.

Average money or super-rich money does not ultimately matter or determine their bond.

But they have great values, they have great work ethic, they have vision, they have discipline and tenacity to go through the process of living and working in both boring and exciting times.

Solid mutual commitment.

They have the love and support, the understanding and contentment, yes the humility, grace, wisdom, forgiveness, maturity, privacy and protection.

They have each other’s interests at heart. 

No one is a betrayer, user or deceiver.

Honesty, transparency and trust are active.

They are truly ‘one flesh’—two individuals bonded as one, in mind and soul and strength.

This again, I say, is the power and beauty of marriage.

But again, no individual or marriage is perfect.

They just have the pre-requirement of wisdom and truthfulness to adequately and authentically assess if they can walk through life together with relative success—no input from desperation or deception.

They also have the critical wisdom, humility and courage to tell themselves the truth and to get the required guidance or growth to work their marriage.

Note those last two words: their marriage.

Remember, it takes two to tango.

Find a truly worthy and capable partner.

More importantly, build yourself to be that.

Bonne chance!

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