LOVE AND BE LOVED




Those who are not patient with you do not love you. 

Vice versa. 

If you seem too impatient or overly restless with and hyper irritated by someone’s natural behavior or growth process which should include their flaws, then you may not love them as much as you should. 

Or you may not be their “chosen one”, if it’s in terms of marriage or close relationship.

And that may be okay.

It shows you who you should bond with.

Definitely, they’re not your inner-circle person.

All these are indicative not indicting.

So use the knowledge positively not negatively.

Let me reiterate:

If you’re deeply impatient with someone, it could indicate that you don’t understand their journey or you have outgrown their company or you don’t love them. And if you don’t love them, then you are not part of their assignment.

Love is patient. 

God will allow many situations to reveal this to you. 

Watch and play, my friend. 

Watch.

See the prompts, patterns, signs and symptoms. 

Analyse, diagnose, test and learn the facts.

Yes, fact-finding for value realization is a big part of life’s wonderful and beautifully engaging endeavor.

Then play.

Like a board game, play by the rules and with the props you are dealt and that are available to you or that you create within the perimeter of the engagement.

Play with godly wisdom, and knowledge of human nature—your nature/personality and that of others. 

So in this context, don’t be coerced or guilt tripped into an inauthentic process/protocol of association, friendship, relationship, love, marriage, business or any socioeconomic process for that matter.

Anyone who is not patient or sympathetic with you in your struggles and dark valleys is simply not your trusted partner or ally, of course with the exception of a good, skilled and intentional coach/mentor who is administering measured dosages of tough and tender love to help you grow stronger and wiser.

So ask yourself: who do you love? who loves you?

Find honest answers to these questions.

Know who you can invest in.

Know who can invest in you.

Know who you love and who loves you.

Be aware. Be engaged and engaging.

À bientôt, nwanne!

Good luck. 

Best wishes to us all.

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