Heart of the Wise

Below are some KEY parameters that show a person is actually IN CHARGE of themselves.  You're NOT in PSYCHOLOGICAL (MENTAL and EMOTIONAL) BONDAGE to money, sex, religion, friends, family, fans, fame, fashion, fantasy, food, drinks (whether it's alcoholic or non alcoholic), drugs, or any other material thing. You're FREE. You take RESPONSIBILITY for your thoughts, words and actions. You don't have the TOXIC HABIT of always PLAYING the BLAME GAME, that is blaming people or things for problems.  You are proactive with learning and prioritize your personal growth and self development.  You're living your life on your own terms and NOT with the obsession of pleasing people.  You make your own decisions based on logic and researched or relevant information, NOT based on TEMPORARY feelings or emotions.  You're emotionally secure enough to be your TRUE self and allow others to be themselves.  You're aware of both your strengths and your weaknesses, and you manage BO

  ARE YOU BEGGING OR SERVING? EVERY human can POSSIBLY be classified into these two categories: those who BEG for things from others to be given to them to survive, AND those who SERVE others and then in exchange receive an ENSUING REWARD or compensation FOR what they have offered or given to people.  These two categories as distinct #MINDSETS, i.e., states of MIND, which govern or guide how people interact with others and go about LIFE, regardless of their socioeconomic conditions. Some minds have been conditioned to always being DEPENDENT on others, or BEGGING and looking for 'hand downs' from others who they consider to be more economically advantaged. However, a few other minds have developed the awareness of self-reliance and self-sufficiency. They have an awakened or activated DESIRE to be INDEPENDENT: to be assets NOT liabilities. They have the WINNING paradigm of #solution providers or #service providers who are on the lookout for needs to meet or problems to solve. The

Ask yourself: WHO AM I?   This is the question of identity: WHO ARE YOU? You are not a title, online bio, brand image, reputation or perception by the public eye.  You are a real human being with a unique personality, mindset, thought process, heart motivations, values system, consciousness, character, awareness and authentic actions.  You are your core values and your thought patterns; that complex matrix and mesh of your particular ideals and idiosyncrasies.  Identify yourself and justify your inclusion or participation in the fascinating ecosystem of human society through your personal growth, productivity, relevance, impact, contribution, significance and interpersonal interactions or interfaces with other 'homo sapiens' on Earth. As you know yourself, you can grow yourself.  As you live your true identity, you can give of yourself in meaningful and loving service to the others, b ecause your individual contribution matters.

THE MIND OF AN #ENTREPRENEUR Written by Mr 'Dozie Osonkie December 7, 2020 Entrepreneurship, just like all of life, is first and foremost a thing of the #MIND. Mindset is 80% or more and sets the stage for all other things. The creation or foundation begins in the mind. When the mind is right, the manifestation will also be right. When the eye is good, the whole body will be good. Whenever our #mentality is illuminated and coordinated, our experience will be optimally processed and BENEFICIAL to us. The entrepreneur is not just a person who gets into a business only to make money because others are making money from that business.  The real entrepreneur is first of all the person with a unique arsenal of mindset and skillset. Even without a business or as an employee, a person with a truly entrepreneurial mind has certain innate qualities that make them tick. Some of these qualities include: vision, value creation/addition, resourcefulness, self-belief, self-reliance, courage, guts

DEAR SINGLES, Never marry a man or woman who you can't trust. Never #marry an insecure person who doesn't trust you. Respect anyone you marry. Never be ashamed or apologise for WHO YOU ARE. Set goals and work towards your goals.  Improve yourself; grow and know YOURSELF.  Then find someone who is also growing and knowing themselves, and who is compatible WITH YOU so you can complement each other.  Be in CHARGE of YOURSELF FIRST, and then identify one who is in charge of themselves. So you can commit to yourselves in lifetime union.  Do NOT have sex, give money, cook or serve anyone just because you want to marry them. Be yourself BEFORE marriage and as you GO INTO marriage so YOUR TRUE SELF can bond authentically with the true self of your mate. Cheating begins before marriage when people PRETEND, deceiving their potential spouses to BE what they are really not. Faulty foundations are built upon falsehoods, lies and deceptions.  You CHEAT when you copy or counterfeit, just like

WHAT IS #LOVE (TO YOU AND ME)? “Love is a largely involuntary (fewer times, intentional) response to (perceived) virtue or value.” In essence, it is OUR OWN "sense of life" or our own "scale of values" that sets the standard for who we will love. It is our own VALUES reflected in the character of another person that elicit the "emotional response" that we refer to as LOVE. (This part above was culled from Lawful Rebel, credits are due; and edited/paraphrased by me) In other words, WE LOVE what WE VALUE.  LOVE IS UTMOST VALUE. Love your neighbor as yourself. Value your fellow human being. That is GOD'S MAIN/ULTIMATE COMMAND.  The "golden rule" of life: do to them as to you. That is, in all fairness, equity and justice due. Forget the many religious noise or drama (that's a gross waste of our time, resources and energy) and simply be this. Value people as if they're YOU. This is what God and Humanity require.  #DohZee